Too much focus on the outcome can quietly sabotage your growth.
Yes, the goal matters. But when you become obsessed with the result, you start rushing the process… doubting your pace… disconnecting from your own power.
That’s exactly what I did in my business—over and over. I had big dreams, but I let the pressure of getting there steal the joy of building here. I wasn’t rooted in rhythm, I was caught in chasing.
The shift came when I realized this:
Growth happens in the becoming, not just the arriving.
And the becoming deserves your full presence.
Release the grip. Trust the work.
You are already becoming her.
Thought Work
Are you consistently engaged in the "rhythm," "flow," and "sustainability" of the process, as the author now prioritizes? Or do you find yourself primarily "chasing, pushing, forcing" and waiting for external results to validate your efforts?
What small, daily actions could you shift to honor the "becoming" over just the "arriving"?
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